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Dating in 2020

Alpha Vs. Beta
We hear a lot about Alpha and Beta males in dating today. What is an Alpha male vs. Beta Male?
Alpha Males are driven, focus, confident, and don’t require anyone’s attention. Alpha males are focus on their purpose, their mission and their passion. Alpha’s are providers and protectors, but only when it’s necessary. Alpha’s aren’t fighting at the bar because someone looked at them, but if they see bad behavior, then Alpha’s will stop it point it out. Alpha’s simply put their interests first.
Beta Males (Nice guys and Simps) require someone’s constant attention, focuses their time in people, lacks drive, finds purpose in their relationships, nice guys, gets walked over, and puts up with bad behavior. Beta’s lack confidence, typically are a push over, and will put up with bad behavior to avoid conflict.
The Art of Attraction
No pillow talking! Don’t gossip, or telling all your business. You always want to remain a mystery. Don’t talk too much, and let the other person try to figure out and discover. Women don’t do things with guys who are chatter boxes.
Don’t validate women all the time. It’s 2020, the year of the DM’s and all the simps complimenting women. If a women has attractive photos online, she knows she looks good. Complimenting women doesn’t mean anything anymore. Don’t compliment women, instead, find like interests. Maybe it’s about something she posted that you find interesting.
A women will always be attracted to the guy who’s not complimenting them.
Attracting girls online is so simple because women will literally tell you what they’re interested in. How can you mess it up? By validating them is losing interests. You have to remain a mystery. You have to separate yourself from the simps by connecting with her on a different level than complimenting her and sliding into her DM’s
Don’t talk about money. How many times have you said or heard someone say, “Yea, I applied for this 6 figure job.” All you’re saying is your value is low, and you’re trying to make up for it by telling them how much money you make. If I tell you all these things, then maybe you’ll stay. When I first bought my mustang, I couldn’t wait to pick up girl and see it. I don’t care if I park in an illegal spot because I wanted them to see it. Now, I don’t even show women until the 3rd or 4th date. Don’t be showing off what you have because it’s a huge turn off for women.
Nothing turns a women off more than someone bragging about their cars, money, or things.
High value males don’t tell people about what they have. Your value should speak for itself, and you’ll have women telling you why you should like them.
Don’t talk about how many other women you’re dating. Don’t brag about how many girls you have or had. You don’t need to brag and say you’re dating 10 women in order to attract a women. Again, be a mystery, or else it’s a turn off. Talk about your money and how many women you have isn’t a turn off for women.
Let the value of you speak for itself. Yes, I’m dating other women, and that’s it. Yes, I have a job, and that’s it. Don’t go bragging about how you’re making this much money, and you have all these hoes chasing you. It’s a turn off to women.
You cannot increase your sexual market value by claiming all these girls want you.
DO NOT TEXT MUCH! You got the number, so you’re doing well, but texting too much will cause her to lose her interests. Texting is for setting up dates and that’s it. You can lose someone’s interests by texting too much. A high value male is working on his purpose, his passion, he’s not focusing on the girl.
You can actually lose a girls interests by texting and messaging too much.
Save your personality for in person, and not texting.
“But what if you’re dating, can I start texting more then?”
Yes, but do not use too many emjo’s. Keep it simple to show you’re a masculine man. You don’t want to end up in the friend zone and be one of her friends. Maintain your masculine frame. Don’t use “LOL, LMFO, etc” because it’s coming off as too friendly. You’ll lose the sexual tension and end up in the friend zone. You can show some personality, but you’re not trying to be her girlfriend.
Not texting at all is better than texting too much.
Nothing is more attractive to a women than a man who has complete control over his emotions. A guy who is so secure, he’s not always checking in on her, wondering what she’s doing, who she’s with because he’s on his purpose doing his thing.
A good sign is when a girl is worrying about where you’re at, what you’re doing and who are you with.
Even when you get rejected, face it, you’re not everyone’s type. You will get reject,but it’s how you face rejection can actually increase a woman’s attraction. Someone women will have interests for you, but reject you because they want to know how you’d react.
Beta’s face rejection with anger, upset, and weak mentality. They’ll say things like, “You’re not that cute anyways.” They’ll say mean things and call them bitches. You just killed what ever chance you had by weak mentality.
How you face rejection will increase or decrease a women’s interest.
It’s no mystery girls will test you in many ways. Girls are smart, and they know how to test you in ways to see how you really are. If you’re too nice, and you’re always agreeing with them, then they’ll lose interests.
But she wants a good guy? Depends on your goal and what you want. If you just want to add her into your rotation, then here’s how you test if she’s truly interested in a good guy. Send her flowers, and see how she responds. If she doesn’t say anything, and it decreases her interests, then move on from that girl because she doesn’t want a nice guy.That’s the type of girl who gets into fights, runs her mouth, then you just add her into your rotation.
Women want to see a man with his own likes and dislikes. You don’t want to agree with her all the time because she’ll lose respect for you.
I had a girl hanging out with her friends late at night, she was on some bullshit and testing me. Stayed the night at her friends that she knew I didn’t like, then she asked me for money for her Uber. Finally, I stood my ground and called her out on her bullshit. Sure enough, she was testing me to see what she could get away with.
What girls say they want and what they really want are two different things.
Why do you think girls like murder mysteries, drama, fairy tales, and 50 Shades of Gray stories? Because women love mystery, and women love to try to discover things on their own.
Key Points for successful dating and relationships in 2020
Alpha
- Confidence
- Don't Text too much
- Stay on your purpose
- Don't Validate
- Let people go
- Remain A mystery
Beta
- insecure
- Texting too much
- Validing Men or Women
- Pillow talking
- Telling your business
- Angry at rejection
But what if I made these mistakes already? Is it over?!?
The good news is… Nope! It’s never really over, but the only thing you can do is not contact the person for 30, 60, or 90 days. Basically, as long as it takes.
But what if they try to contact me?
Don’t answer… This doesn’t mean you have to completely block or avoid them, but don’t respond. If you see them out in public say hi, but don’t talk to them. Use this time to work on yourself. Get into the gym, focus on your career and purpose, and work hard at being the best version of yourself.
As I result, you might become even more attractive, and attract a better person, and leave the old person in the past. The heartbreak could’ve been exactly what you needed.
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